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第9章 生活的真谛（第2页）

Lifeisntaboutkeeingscore。

Itsnotabouthowmanyfriendsyouhaveorhowaccetedyouare。

Notaboutifyouhavelansthisweekendorifyourealone。

Itisntaboutwhoyouredating，whoyouusedtodate，howmanyeoleyouvedated，orifyouhaventbeenwithanyoneatall。

Itisntaboutwhoyouhavekissed。

Itsnotaboutsex。

Itisntaboutwhoyourfamilyisorhowmuchmoneytheyhave。

Orwhatkindofcaryoudrive。

Orwhereyouaresenttoschool。

Itsnotabouthowbeautifuloruglyyouare。

Orwhatclothesyouwear，whatshoesyouhaveon，orwhatkindofmusicyoulistento。

Itsnotaboutifyourhairisblonde，red，black，orbrownorifyourskinistoolightortoodark。

Notaboutwhatgradesyouget，howsmartyouare，howsmarteverybodyelsethinksyouare，orhowsmartstandardizedtestssayyouare。

Itsnotaboutreresentingyourwholebeingonaieceofaerandseeingwhowill

"accetthewrittenyou

"。Lifejustisnt。

But，lifeisaboutwhoyouloveandwhoyouhurt。

Itsaboutwhoyoumakehayorunhayurosefully。

Itsaboutkeeingorbetrayingtrust。

Itsaboutfriendshi，usedasasanctityoraweaon。

Itsaboutwhatyousayandwhatyoumean，maybehurtful，maybeheartening。

Itsaboutstartingrumorsandcontributingtoettygossi。

Itsaboutwhatjudgmentsyouassandwhy。Andwhoyourjudgmentaresreadto。

Itsaboutwhoyouveignoredwithfullcontrolandintention。

Itsaboutjealousy，fear，ignoranceandrevenge。

Itsaboutcarryinginnerhateandlove，lettingitgrow，andsreadingit。

Butmostofall，itsaboutusingyourlifetotouchoroisonothereolesheartsinsuchawaythatcouldhaveneveroccurredalone。

Onlyyouchoosethewaythoseheartsareaffected，andthosechoicesarewhatlifesallabout。